Before You Speak Negatively of Your Ex…

🧜🏾‍♀️Good Morning Sis,

💗I have a message for you this morning. Are you ready to hear it?

.Okay… Here it goes..

BEFORE you start talking trash about your Ex, whether that be your Ex-boyfriend, your Ex-husband, your Ex-friend, your Ex-coworker, your Ex-boss, or whoever your Ex (or Ex-ES) may be, I want you to remember this,

No matter what that person did, or not matter what that person didn’t do, or no matter how horrible of a person you perceive that person to be,

You must ALWAYS remember this ONE VERY IMPORTANT thing.

💗YOU CHOSE that person.💁🏾‍♀️

REGARDLESS of what the circumstances may have been, your must OWN the RESPONSIBILITY for the fact that YOU made the choices that put you in that situation.


💗Because you CAN NOT change or control that which you do not own.

By projecting the responsibility on other people, you forfeit your power and your ability to make the changes that will SHIFT your circumstances and your situation in the direction that serves YOU at your highest and your best.🌀

Your power DOES NOT lie in your ability to eloquently articulate all of the “negative” things that other people have done to you. No Sis, that’s NOT how this works.🧜🏾‍♀️

Your power lies in your ability and your WILLINGNESS to

💗Recognize where you have responsibility in that situation,

💗Own your Responsibility, then

💗Shift your mindset, your behavior, and your energy, so that you can

💗Release the behaviors and the distortions that caused you to make those decisions that placed you in those positions in the first place.

THIS is where your power lies.

🧜🏾‍♀️Sis, when I began Owning Responsibility for the roles that I played in different areas of my life, I began to experience IMMEDIATE shifts in my personal life, in my relationships with my Beloved and my children and my Birth Mother and my Money and my Business and even my relationship with The Divine Source.

Try it, Sis.

I PROMISE you, your life will begin to change, DRASTICALLY💁🏾‍♀️

I Love You, Sis😘



P.S. If you want to go deeper with this, we can. I still have some of my 45-Minute 🔥Fire🔥Coaching Sessions left. DM me for the details😘

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